– Ngaphambilini ngakuthumelela umbuzo. Wathi, akufanele kubuzwe owesifazane ukuthi uyintombi yini. Pho-ke, kukhona iHadith ekhulunywa kuKutubu Sitte, 6601 – Ibnu Abbas radıyallahu anhüma uyayilandisa:
“Indoda eyayivela kwa-Ansar yashada nowesifazane ovela kwa-Beliclan, yase yenza umshado wayo, yahlala naye ubusuku bonke. Kwathi ngakusasa:
“Ngamtholi lo wesifazane eyintombi!”
kwathiwa. Indaba yafika kuMprofethi uMuhammad (ukuthula nokubusiswa kukaNkulunkulu kube phezu kwakhe). UMprofethi wabiza indodakazi yakhe wayibuza ngalolu daba. Owesifazane wathi:
“Cha! Ngangiyintombi!”
Wathi. Ngokomyalo kaMprofethi (ukuthula nokubusiswa kukaAllah kube phezu kwakhe), babenza isifungo sokungathembeki. (Indoda) yamupha umfazi wakhe umhlomulo wakhe.”
– Kukhulunywa ngesimo esinjalo. Uma kungabuzwa ukuthi uyintombi yini noma cha, kungani lokhu kubhekwa njengesizathu sokudivosa? Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukudivosa ngokuqalekisa!…
– Ake sithi owesifazane ulahlekelwe ubuntombi bakhe ngokuphinga, hhayi ngomshado, kulokhu:
1. Ingabe owesifazane oziphethe kabi usabhekwa njengentombi?
2. Uma kunjalo, ngabe uMprofethi akazange yini acabange ukuthi ubumsulwa bowesifazane babungcoliswe ngobufebe, hhayi ngomshado, lapho kwatholakala ukuthi akaseyona intombi ngobusuku bomshado?
Mthandiwe, mzalwane wethu,
Le hadithi lelandiswa ngu-Ibn Majah.
(Talak, 27/ h. no: 2070)
– Lezi ndaba ka-Ibn Majah
buthaka
kubikwe ngendlela.
(bheka u-Ibn Majah, agy/talik)
– U-Heysemi, okukhulunywa ngaye kwi-sanad yendaba eyalandiswa ngu-Bezzar.
abalandisi abathembekile/abaqinisekile
kuye kwabikwa. (Mecmau’z-Zvevaid, h. no: 7843)
Kodwa uBezzar yena,
“Le ndaba siyazi ngale ndlela kuphela.”
ngokuthi indaba
ubuthakathaka bakhe
uphawulile.
(bheka uMusnadu el-Bezzar, h. no: 5100)
Ngemva kokucacisa isikhundla se-hadith, manje sesingaphendula imibuzo yakho emibili:
1. “Umfazi oziphethe ngendlela yokuziphatha okubi angabhekwa njengentombi yini?”
umbuzo:
Cha, owesifazane oziphethe ngendlela yokuziphatha okubi akabhekwa njengentombi. Akukho lutho olukhomba lokhu eHadith.
2. “Uma kunjalo, ngesikhathi kwembulwa ukuthi owesifazane wayengaseyona ntombi ngobusuku bomshado, kungenzeka yini ukuthi uMprofethi wayengacabangi ukuthi ubumsulwa bakhe babungalahlekile ngomshado kodwa ngobufebe?”
umbuzo:
Lapha, udaba alukhona ukuthi ubuntombi buphazanyiswe kanjani, kodwa ukuthi buphazanyisiwe yini noma cha. Ngoba kukhona isimangalo; indoda ithi umkayo akaseyona intombi, ngakho-ke ubephinga. Umfazi akakuvumanga lokhu.
– Uma uMprofethi (ukuthula kube kuye) ebeke isinqumo ngalolu daba, ubenze ngokweNcwadi kaNkulunkulu. UNkulunkulu uthi:
“Ngokuphathelene namadoda asola abafazi babo ngokuphinga, kodwa angakwazi ukuthola abanye ofakazi ngaphandle kwabo, ubufakazi babo ngamunye buwukuthi afunge izikhathi ezine egameni likaNkulunkulu ukuthi ukhuluma iqiniso. Ngokwesihlanu, afunge ukuthi uma eqamba amanga, isiqalekiso sikaNkulunkulu sibe phezu kwakhe. Ubufakazi bomfazi osolwayo buwukuthi afunge izikhathi ezine egameni likaNkulunkulu ukuthi umyeni wakhe uqamba amanga ngalokhu kumangalela. Ngokwesihlanu, afunge ukuthi uma umyeni wakhe ekhuluma iqiniso, intukuthelo kaNkulunkulu ibe phezu kwakhe.”
(An-Nur, 24/6-9)
Ngiyabingelela ngithandazela…
UbuSulumane Ngemibuzo
