– Ngilahlekelwe yintshisekelo yokuphila, ngiyazi ukuthi ngizofa noma kunjalo, angisafuni ukwenza lutho, ningangisiza yini?
Mthandiwe, mzalwane wethu,
Asazi ukuthi yini ekulethe kulesi simo. Mhlawumbe izinhlupheko, izifo, ukushona kwakho othandekayo, noma izinkinga ongakwazi ukuzixazulula futhi ezikwenza uzizwe ube ngaphandle kwethemba. Kungenzeka ukuthi waphelelwa ithemba, walahlekelwa injabulo yokuphila, futhi wangenwa ukucindezeleka.
Umuntu ohlushwa ukucindezeleka ubona umhlaba nempilo ngendlela engalungile kakhulu. Ngoba umuntu uhlola izinto njengoba zinjalo, kodwa ngombono wengqondo yakhe eyisigqila, imicabango yakhe nezinqumo zakhe azinakuba nempilo.
Ngokwesibonelo, umuntu oshonelwe ngumuntu amthandayo angase azizwe sengathi yonke into ayinamqondo ekuqaleni. Angase acabange ukuthi yonke into iyize futhi angabi nandaba nokuphila.
Umuntu ofanayo, ngamandla okholo, angase abheke ukufa ngendlela entsha, futhi ngemva kokuba isikhathi esithile sesidlulile, angase akwazi ukubona yena kanye nempilo yakhe ngendlela eyakhayo kakhulu, ngemva kokuba eseluleme ekucindezelekeni.
Siyacabanga ukuthi nawe ungase ube sesimweni esinjalo. Ngakho-ke, ungakwazi ukuhlola ukuthi isinqumo osithathile mayelana nempilo yakho siyiqiniso yini kuphela uma usufinyelele esimweni esihle sengqondo.
Ukuze ukhululeke kulesi simo somzwelo okuso, nazi izeluleko zethu:
– Akukho Ubunzima Obuhlala Njalo
Izinkinga yizinto ezithinta wonke umuntu ngezikhathi ezithile, ngisho nabaprofethi. Nakuba izinga lezinkinga lihluka kumuntu nomuntu, akekho umuntu ongenazo. UBediüzzaman Hazretleri uyichaza ngaleli zwi elinencazelo:
“O muntu! Isimo esiyinqaba kakhulu uMdali ohlakaniphile asibeke emvelweni wakho yilesi:
Ngezinye izikhathi awukwazi ukuzinza emhlabeni, njengomuntu oklinywe umphefumulo ejele.
‘Oof, oof!…’
Uthi ufuna indawo ebanzi kunomhlaba, kodwa wena uyangena uhlala endaweni encane, emsebenzini, enkumbulweni, ngomzuzu. Inhliziyo nengqondo yakho, ehluleka ukuhlala emhlabeni wonke, iyahlala kuleyo ndawo encane. Uthola imizwa yakho enamandla kakhulu kuleyo ndawo encane, kuleyo nkumbulo, ngalomzuzu.”
(Izinkanyiso, Izinkanyiso Zeshumi Nesikhombisa)
Lezi zinkinga ezivela ngezikhathi ezithile, umuntu oselahlekelwe injabulo yokuphila uzizwa sengathi azisoze zaphela. Kodwa akukho nkinga noma usizi oluhlala njalo, kudingeka nje umzamo, ukuzikhandla kanye nokubekezela.
Njengoba izigidi zabantu zibhekana nezinkinga zazo, zithola izixazululo, zibekezela futhi zithembela kuNkulunkulu, nani nizoqeda le nkinga ngemvume kaNkulunkulu.
Njengoba uMevlana Hazretleri asho.
“Ungakhathazeki ngalutho, nhliziyo yami, ngoba lezi zinkathazo azihlali njalo, nalo lolu hlobo lokuphila nalo aluhlali njalo.”
– Lungiselela Impilo Ngemva Kokufa
Ungakhohlwa ukuthi udinga amandla okuphila ukuze ulungiselele impilo yangemva kokufa. Ngoba ukufa kusho kuphela ukuphela kwemisebenzi yethu kulempilo. Impilo yaphakade isilindele ngemva kokufa. Kudingeka ukulungiselela lempilo yaphakade.
Kubalulekile ukusebenza kulo mhlaba ukuze siziphendulele kuMdali wethu, siphunyuke emlilweni wesihogo, futhi singene epharadisi.
Njengoba sazi, uMprofethi u-Ayyub (aleyhisselam) wacela kuNkulunkulu impilo nempumelelo ukuze akwazi ukwenza imisebenzi yakhe yobudlelwane noNkulunkulu kangcono.
Njengoba kubonakala, uma kungekho injabulo yokuphila, ukulinda ukufa akukhona ukukhululeka, kodwa ukukhathala nokudumazeka kwaphakade.
– Shintsha Indlela Obheka Ngayo Inkinga Yakho
Kukhona iqiniso elithile elingokwengqondo eliye lafakazelwa:
Abantu abaphazamisayo akuzona izinto abahlangabezana nazo nezinkinga abazitholayo, kodwa yincazelo embi abayinika yona.
Ukuze wenze lokhu, zama ukubuka izinhlungu obhekene nazo ngombono omuhle, uzame ukuziqonda.
Ivesi-i Kerim (indima engcwele) nalo liyabashumayeza abantu ngalokhu:
“Kungenzeka ukuthi nithanda into ethile, kanti yona iyinhlanhla yenu. Kungenzeka futhi ukuthi nithanda into ethile, kanti yona iyishwa yenu. U-Allah uyazi, nina anazi.”
(Al-Baqarah, 2:216).
– Hlolisisa Izigameko Ose Uke Waba Nazo
Ukuze uqede lesi simo sengqondo, qala ngokuhlola kabusha izenzakalo ozithola usuzibhekene nazo, ngempela zibuhlungu kangakanani njengoba uzizwa?
Uma lokhu kwenzeka kumngani wakho,
Manje zisho wena wedwa amazwi ongamsiza ngawo.
Cabanga ngendlela ongamduduza ngayo, futhi ube nesihe kuwe njengoba unaso kuye.
– Shintsha Indlela Ozibona Ngayo
Kungenzeka ukuthi kukhulunywa ngawe,
“Ngineshwa kakhulu”
noma
“Angiyilutho”
noma
“Angifanele ukuthandwa”, “Angiphumeleli”
njengokuthi unemicabango engakhi.
Zishintshe lezi zinto bese uzama ukuthula nawe ngokwakho.
– Thola Imisebenzi, Imidlalo, Nezinto Zokuzilibazisa Ezikujabulisayo
Ngaphandle kwalokho, zibandakanye ngezinto, imisebenzi, noma izinto zokuzilibazisa owawuzenza ngaphambili futhi ezazikujabulisa. Noma yini engakususa emicabangweni yakho iyasiza ekuphuleni umjikelezo wokucindezeleka.
– Yibani nomgomo ozokwenza impilo yakho ibe nenjongo
Lokhu kungaba umgomo wezemfundo, noma umsebenzi wokuzithandela esikhungweni noma emphakathini.
– Ungalokothi ukunqamule ukuxhumana nabantu abakuzungezile.
Ungazihlukanisi nabantu obaziyo, abangani, abantu obathandayo noma amaqembu omphakathi, zama ukuhlala phakathi kwabantu. Ngoba umuntu olahlekelwe injabulo yokuphila ufuna ukuzihlukanisa nabantu. Lokhu kumphusha ekupheleni kwethemba, kumshiya yedwa nemisindo emibi yangaphakathi.
Indlela elula yokuzikhipha emicabangweni emibi yangaphakathi ukuxhumana nabanye abantu.
Hambani niye kumuntu omaziyo noma umakhelwane, niye kuphuza ikhofi nomngani. Uma kungekho muntu, hambani esitolo noma emakethe, nizihlanganise nabantu.
– Vakashele imvelo nezindawo zemvelo njalo.
Hambani njalo ngezikhathi ezithile nani nabangani benu noma izihlobo zenu, nindawonye, niyozulazula ezindaweni ezinemvelo nasezindaweni eziluhlaza. Kakhulukazi kule nkathi yentwasahlobo, yizani nivakashele amahlathi, izingadi, namapaki, izindawo eziyisizinda sokuphila, ukunyakaza, nokuthula.
– Thandazani kakhulu, nifune usizo kuNkulunkulu, uMninimandla onke.
UNkulunkulu usinikeze umthandazo ngoba yingoba lapho siphelelwa yithemba, siyaphendukela kuye, sicela usizo kuye.
Uma usazange uzizwe kangcono ngemva kwamasonto ambalwa, sincoma ukuthi uthole ukwelashwa kusazi-ngqondo esingumsebenzi oqeqeshiwe futhi esikholwa kakhulu.
Ngiyabingelela ngithandazela…
UbuSulumane Ngemibuzo
