– Ingabe ukushadiswa kwentombazane ngomuntu engamfuni, ngoba iphoqwe umndeni wayo, kuyaphikisana nenkolo?
Mthandiwe, mzalwane wethu,
Owesifazane noma owesilisa,
uma abaphoqelela ukuba bangene emshadweni ngokusongela ngokufa, ngokushaywa ngesihluku, noma ngokuboshwa isikhathi eside, umshado lowo uba
Isivumelwano somshado siba yize.
UMprofethi uMuhammad (ukuthula kube kuye) wathi ngalokhu:
“UNkulunkulu uSomandla uyangithethelela mina kanye nabo bonke abantu bami ngemisebenzi eyenziwe ngamaphutha, ukukhohlwa kanye nokuphoqelelwa.”
(Ibn Majah, Talaq: 16)
Le hadith-i şerif, elandiswe ngu-Imam Neseî, liyakhanyisa kakhulu le ndaba:
UHansa, indodakazi kaHidame wase-Ansar, wangena phambi kukaHz. Aisha wabe esekhala ngalokhu:
“Ubaba wangishadisa nendodana yomfowabo ukuze akhulise isithunzi sakhe. Mina angifuni.”
U-Hazret-i Âişe,
“Lindani kuze kufike uMprofethi (ukuthula nokubusiswa kukaAllah kube kuye).”
Uthulisa kanjalo. Lapho uMprofethi (ukuthula nokubusiswa kukaAllah kube kuye) efika, u-Aisha (uAllah akamthokozise) wamtshela ngesimo.
Umthunywa kaAllah (ukuthula kube kuye) wabe esebiza uyise wentombazane ngokushesha, wamnika igunya lokushada.
Ngakho-ke, u-Hansâ wathi kuMprofethi (ukuthula nokubusiswa makube kuye):
“Ya Rasulullah! Ngiyavuma lo mshado owenziwe ngubaba, kodwa ngifuna ukwazisa ukuthi abazali abanalo igunya elinjalo phezu kwentombi zabo emshadweni.”
(Neseî, Nikâh, 36)
Lapha, siyazisa ukuthi ukuthathwa kwegunya kobaba kusho ukuthi abakwazi ukushadisa amadodakazi abo ngempoqo. Zombili izindaba ezingenhla zibonisa ukuthi imvume yentombazane iyisidingo esibalulekile ukuze umshado ube semthethweni.
Ukucindezela,
Ngenxa yokuthi ukuzwana kususwa, umshado awusemthethweni.
Lolu hlobo lwenqubo luyimbono yeningi yezazi zama-mujtahid ezaziwa njengabaphethe umthetho. Kodwa-ke, isikole se-Hanafi sinombono ohlukile kulolu daba. Ngokwabo, ukuzimisela akuyona imfuneko yokuqiniseka komshado. Njengobufakazi, baveza i-hadith ekhuluma ngomshado lapho ukuzimisela nokudlala kuthathwa njengokufanayo.
Nokho, umbono womphakathi ngalolu daba unembile kakhulu mayelana nempilo yomkhaya ozosungulwa kanye nokuvimbela ukuhlupheka kwamaqembu.
Ngiyabingelela ngithandazela…
UbuSulumane Ngemibuzo
