Ingabe kukhona yini ukushada nowesifazane obala ngokusobala enkolweni yethu, futhi kufanele kube kanjani?
Mthandiwe, mzalwane wethu,
Kuvumelela intombazane engembathanga isihawu kuvumelekile.
Ngakho-ke, umshado nowesifazane ongagqokile ngendlela efanele ngokwe-Islam uyavumelekile. Ngoba, phakathi kwezimo zomshado…
“ukuthi owesifazane kufanele azimboze ngendlela ehambisana nemithetho yokuzithiba”
Akukho mthetho othi kunjalo. Kodwa kumuntu obalulekile kuye ukuthi umkakhe agqoke ngendlela efanele, kungaba yinkinga esikhathini esizayo. Futhi lokhu kungaba yimbangela yesehlukaniso.
Kanyezinye izikhathi, izinkinga uzidlulisela esikhathini, zizixazulule ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kancane kancane, ngaphandle kokuzicindezela kakhulu, zivuthwe ngokwemvelo.
Kukhona nezinye izinkinga ezingaxazululeki ngokuzishiya zize zidlule isikhathi; kudingeka ukusebenzisa izimiso ezithile ukuze zixazululwe ngokushesha nje lapho zitholakele. Le nkinga okukhulunywa ngayo lapha ingena kuleli qembu lezinkinga.
Ngokwesibonelo:
– Uma umuntu wesifazane ekhululekile, kungenzeka ukuthi uyasebenza.
Ngenxa yomsebenzi wakhe, kubonakala kungenakwenzeka ukuthi agqoke ihijab ngokushesha. Uzoshiya umsebenzi uma eseshadile, ngaleyo ndlela isimo esivimbela ukugqoka ihijab sizobe sesiphelile, futhi uzogqoka ihijab.
– Noma okuzungezile,
ngenxa yesimo sakhe somndeni, akakwazi ukunqoba ezinye izithiyo eyedwa, noma akakwazi ukwenza kahle ngokwanele emzabalazweni, ngenxa yalokho akakwazi ukugqoka izingubo azifisayo.
Kukhona okunye okungaphezu kwalezi zimo ezimbili:
Umuntu othembisa ukuthi uzogqoka ngendlela efanele ngemva kokushada, njengoba nifisa, akakaze abe nomuzwa wokuzibophezela nokuziqaphela njengani. Uthatha ukugqoka ngendlela efanele njengento engaba khona noma ingabi khona, okuyindlela yokucabanga engalungile.
Ukuphila impilo yobudlelwano nomuntu onjalo
“yebo”
ngoba lokho kungase kulethe izingozi ezithile zokuphila, kungcono ukungazami. Ngoba into ebaluleke kakhulu emshadweni yiyona ukuba munye nokwabelana ngezinkolelo nemicabango. Ezinye izimo zingabekelwa isikhathi.
Ukuze uthole ulwazi olwengeziwe, chofoza lapha:
Izithini izeluleko zakho ngokuphathelene nomshado?
Ngiyabingelela ngithandazela…
UbuSulumane Ngemibuzo
