– Ingabe kuvumelekile ukuthi owesifazane ahlukanise nomyeni wakhe uma ephoqwa umndeni wakhe ukuba ahlukane naye?
Mthandiwe, mzalwane wethu,
Nakuba ukwehlukana kwemishado kuvumelekile enkolweni yethu,
Ukushada ngaphandle kwesizathu esizwakalayo akwamukelekile enkolelweni yethu.
Kuyinto haram, ikakhulukazi kubazali bomlingani ngamunye, ukucindezela izingane zabo ukuba zihlukane.
Inkolo yethu iyawubalulekisa kakhulu umshado. UThixo uSomandla,
“Ukudala kwakhe abalingani abazokuthola ukuthula nabo phakathi kwenu, nokubeka uthando nesihe phakathi kwenu, kungenye yezibonakaliso zakhe. Ngempela, kulokhu kukhona izifundo kubantu abacabangayo.”
(IsiGreki, 30/21)
Usho njalo. Le ndima isitshela ezinye zezihloko zokuhlakanipha empilweni yomshado neyomndeni.
Inkolo yethu, ehlalisa umshado njengesibambiso esiqinile phakathi kwabashadile, iyala indoda ukuba iphile kahle nomkayo. UMprofethi wethu (ukuthula nokubusiswa kube phezu kwakhe) naye…
“abantu abaphumelele kakhulu phakathi kwabakholwayo yilabo abaphatha kahle abafazi babo”
ukuthi
(bheka Tirmidhi, Rada’ 11.)
ukushilo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uMprofethi wethu (ukuthula kube kuye) wayala ukuthi owesifazane naye amhloniphe umyeni wakhe.
(bheka uBukhari, Ahkam, 1; u-Abu Dawud, Nikah, 40; u-Ibn Majah, Nikah, 4)
Into oyithanda kakhulu uNkulunkulu, nakuba ivunyelwe, yiyona ndoa.
(bheka u-Abu Dawud, Talak, 3)
Kuyindlela yokugcina yokuxazulula izinkinga zombhangqwana abangazwani. Kuyinto ekhathazayo ukuthi lokhu kwanda ngendlela engenangqondo nengenasizathu emphakathini wamaMuslim.
Ukuze uthole ulwazi olwengeziwe, chofoza lapha:
– Ziziphi izizathu zesehlukaniso, futhi zilinganiswa kanjani?
Ngiyabingelela ngithandazela…
UbuSulumane Ngemibuzo
