– Minaqeda iminyaka emihlanu ngikhuluma nomfana wami ngomshado. Sase siphothula izifundo zethu, sase sihlanganisa imindeni yethu ndawonye ngesidlo sakusihlwa ukuze sihlele umshado. Kulesidlo sakusihlwa kwakukhona omama bobabili, obaba bobabili, kanye nomfowabo womfana.
– Ngesikhathi sikhuluma, mina nomfana wami sathi “Ngikwamukela njengomkami.” Ngokweshariya yamaHanafi, ingabe sesishadile ngokwenkolo?
– Ingabe umshado uba semthethweni ngala mazwi aphinyiselwa phakathi kwenkulumo ngaphambi kokuthandazwa nokunqunywa kwemali yomshado?
Mthandiwe, mzalwane wethu,
Umfana/ntombazana ohlala naye/naye, enihlela ukushada naye phambi kwabantu, uyakutshela:
“Ngikwamukele njengomkami.”
uma esho kanjalo,
uma nani nivumile lokhu
(akwanele ukuthi yena asho, kodwa kudingeka ukuthi nani nisho ngandlela thile ukuthi niyavuma),
Yebo, uma kukhona isivumelwano nokwamukelwa okuvumelanayo, khona-ke isivumelwano somshado siyenzeka.
Ukungakhulunywa kwemali yomngeni akulimazi umshado.
, kodwa owesifazane ufanelwe yimali yomhlomulo ngokwesilinganiso sowesifazane olinganayo.
Yebo, kusukela manje kuqhubeke kufanele uqaphele kakhulu ngokuphathelene nendaba yokuqoma.
Ngiyabingelela ngithandazela…
UbuSulumane Ngemibuzo
