– Ingabe imithandazo esiyenza ngengqondo, sithule, siphakamise izandla zethu sibheke ezulwini, ngenkathi sisebusweni bomthandazo, iyarekhodwa yizingelosi?
Mthandiwe, mzalwane wethu,
Imithandazo eyenziwa ngaphandle kokunyakazisa umlomo nayo iyasebenza.
Lokhu nakho kubhalwa izingelosi.
Umthandazo ungenziwa ngenhliziyo kuphela noma ngomlomo.
Akudingeki ukuba uthandaze ngokuphimisela ngolimi noma ngokuphakamisa izandla.
Okunye okuhle kakhulu ekuthandazeni ukuthandaza ngenhliziyo, ngomlomo, nangezandla zivulekile. Nokho, imithandazo eyenziwa ngenhliziyo kuphela, ngaphandle kokuvula izandla, nayo iyasebenza.
Umuntu angathandaza ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngenkathi ehamba, ehlezi, enza umsebenzi, noma elele.
Ukuze uthole ulwazi olwengeziwe, chofoza lapha:
– Yiyiphi indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthandaza?
– Indlela yokwenza umthandazo kufanele ibe njani, yimiphi imithandazo eyamukelekayo, nokuthi yini…
Ngiyabingelela ngithandazela…
UbuSulumane Ngemibuzo
