– U-Usama El Kavsi, umfundisi wase-Egypt olandela imfundiso ye-Salaf.
“ukuthi indoda ingamubuka umfazi wayo esazoba ngumkayo egeza ngaphambi kokuba bashade”
Izindaba ezashicilelwa ziveza lokhu. Ngokwalezo zindaba, kuvidiyo eyashicilelwa nguKavsi, uthe amadoda athembekileyo nangenhloso emsulwa angabuka abesifazane abazoshada nabo beshawa ukuze abone ukuthi kukhona yini okungashintsha imibono yabo. UKavsi uphinde wakhuthaza amadoda ukuba enze lokhu…
“ukuzifihla”
ukuncomile.
– Ngiyajabula uma ungachaza ukuthi le fatwa iyahambisana noma ayihambisani yini nenkolo yamaSulumane, uze ufake nemithombo yakho.
Mthandiwe, mzalwane wethu,
Yani, sorunuzda belirttiğiniz gibi,
“Indoda engumMuslim ingamqaphela umfazi wayo ayefuna ukumshada ngenkathi egeza.”
Le ngenye indlela, leli fatwa alilungile ngokwenkolo, kodwa liyiphutha futhi liyisiphetho somqondo ongahambisani nokuziphatha kwamaSulumane, futhi awunawo umkhakha e-Islam. Uma kukhona fatwa enjalo, imibono enjalo ayihlangani ne-Islam ngalutho.
Ebu Islam, kunemingcele yobumfihlo.
Akukho bufakazi obukhomba ukuthi abantu abangavunyelwe ukushada ngokwenkolo bangadlula imingcele yamaSulumane ngokuthi, ngaphambi komshado, babuke umuntu abazoshada naye ngesikhathi egeza, ngendlela engase ifanekisele ukuhlola noma ukubuka ngasese. Lokho kuyiphutha.
Nokho, akukho nkinga uma abantu abafuna ukushada bebonana phambi kwabanye abantu, ngaphandle kokuba ndawonye bodwa, futhi uma behlonipha imithetho yama-Islamic yokugqoka.
Kukhona amahadith (izisho zikaMprofethi) akhuluma ngalokhu. Nazi ezimbili zazo:
UMughira bin Shu’ba waya kuMprofethi (ukuthula nokubusiswa kukaAllah kube kuye) wathi ufuna ukushada nowesifazane. UMprofethi,
“Umuphi umfazi?”
Lapho ebuzwa, uMughire waphendula wathi:
“Cha”
wathi. Ngakho-ke uMphrofethi wethu,
“Hamba uyobona lowo wesifazane, ngoba ukumbona lowo wesifazane ofuna ukumshada, kufaneleke kakhulu ukuthi kube khona uthando nokwazisana phakathi kwenu uma senishadile.”
uyalele kanjalo.
(Nesai, Nikah, 17)
Kwenye hadithi eyalandiswa ngu-Abu Hurayrah (ra), kukhona okunye okushiwo ngale ndaba. Ngelinye ilanga, ngesikhathi esehlezi eduze koMprofethi, kwafika indoda yathi ifuna ukushada nowesifazane ovela e-Ansar. Ngakho-ke, uMprofethi wathi…
“Umuphi umfazi?”
Ubuza. Lapho leyo Sahaba iphendula ngokuthi ayizange iyibone, uMprofethi (ukuthula nokubusiswa kube kuye) wathi kuyo:
“Hamba, uye uyobona lowo wesifazane. Ngoba kukhona okuthile emehlweni ka-Ensar.”
ngiyavuma.
(Muslim, Nikah, 12)
Ngiyabingelela ngithandazela…
UbuSulumane Ngemibuzo
